Remedy for Broken Relationship in Astrology
When we go through a difficult time in life or break up in a relationship and feel sorrow, we need to remind ourselves that the Universe is not hurting us, but is trying to change within us. But often change is initiated by ruthlessly removing things from us, we feel we need the most or we love the most. Not only did the difficult circumstances drive our relationships away, but they give us some glimpses into our own "bad behavior" and we need to improve. So what can we do when our wounds, our ugly, or when our unpleasant feelings arise?
Healing work starts below the surface of consciousness, just as a physical wound comes out from inside. We can understand this wound in the same way as any other wound. Here are some things to consider:
1: Take your time. When you are injured you stop. Just like you go to bed when you are sick, just like when you are "heartbroken". Your energy for questions and grief flows inward, giving you very little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: food, rest, and basic self-care.
2: Try to find out what the problem is: Does your hard time tell you anything? Is this the final wound of a broken relationship, (as Saturn transits over your natal Venus) how do you describe the situation, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The injured heart often needs some time to recover, you can do some of these things.
3: Make a good plan for yourself: Apply something to soothe the pain. Go inwards to find the healer within you. This inner healer is, at the moment, probably speaking with a voice of divine power. Your own intuitive therapist may say that you have to write it down, paint it, cry or anger, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn be the Healer, though things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit from being away from your home or circle of friends for some time. Go for a retreat or vacation to a place where you can get perspective. Even a day off, or something to break the familiar routine, can help.
Consider surrounding yourself with things that hold inspirational energy, or simply things you love, colors, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, to overcome your depression Is a good way of It can allow yourself things that you have denied yourself. Why can't you find a dog, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever you haven't put on hold. After the divorce, many people hated double-bed loneliness. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are happy to see fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep clearing your fear, anger and jealousy. It hurts, but you need to understand the role played in this wound so that it is not repeated in the future. We often elicit obsessive-compulsive copulation patterns during difficult times, so by accepting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound to a deeper level of understanding.
4: Make a Plan: Planning is your approach and your treatment therapy. This will be temporary and will have to be changed. Stay with your plan even when it is difficult. If you expose your former partner again you rejoin the game of shame / blame. Unless you are with someone helping you, do not expose yourself to this wound again.
5: Give yourself time to heal: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some set routines and "dates" in your week? It can be as simple as knowing which day you can go to yoga, gym and walk for 20 minutes in the morning. Every Saturday night you can go to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone you trust, for a warm talk. Keep the schedule in one place. If you feel the need. Like all wounds, complete healing takes time, but we do not have to suffer continuous damage. Build confidence in yourself, that you are cute and we can love again. Trust in this process, forgive yourself if you are not right, over time you will see that the wound is healing below the surface.
6: Naturopathy for depression: Eat plenty of fresh juices, green vegetables and sprouted grains. Alfalfa and moong dal, if you like it, you can have cheese and butter milk. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruit, or apple juice before going to bed at night.
Healing work starts below the surface of consciousness, just as a physical wound comes out from inside. We can understand this wound in the same way as any other wound. Here are some things to consider:
1: Take your time. When you are injured you stop. Just like you go to bed when you are sick, just like when you are "heartbroken". Your energy for questions and grief flows inward, giving you very little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: food, rest, and basic self-care.
2: Try to find out what the problem is: Does your hard time tell you anything? Is this the final wound of a broken relationship, (as Saturn transits over your natal Venus) how do you describe the situation, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The injured heart often needs some time to recover, you can do some of these things.
3: Make a good plan for yourself: Apply something to soothe the pain. Go inwards to find the healer within you. This inner healer is, at the moment, probably speaking with a voice of divine power. Your own intuitive therapist may say that you have to write it down, paint it, cry or anger, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn be the Healer, though things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit from being away from your home or circle of friends for some time. Go for a retreat or vacation to a place where you can get perspective. Even a day off, or something to break the familiar routine, can help.
Consider surrounding yourself with things that hold inspirational energy, or simply things you love, colors, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, to overcome your depression Is a good way of It can allow yourself things that you have denied yourself. Why can't you find a dog, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever you haven't put on hold. After the divorce, many people hated double-bed loneliness. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are happy to see fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep clearing your fear, anger and jealousy. It hurts, but you need to understand the role played in this wound so that it is not repeated in the future. We often elicit obsessive-compulsive copulation patterns during difficult times, so by accepting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound to a deeper level of understanding.
4: Make a Plan: Planning is your approach and your treatment therapy. This will be temporary and will have to be changed. Stay with your plan even when it is difficult. If you expose your former partner again you rejoin the game of shame / blame. Unless you are with someone helping you, do not expose yourself to this wound again.
5: Give yourself time to heal: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some set routines and "dates" in your week? It can be as simple as knowing which day you can go to yoga, gym and walk for 20 minutes in the morning. Every Saturday night you can go to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone you trust, for a warm talk. Keep the schedule in one place. If you feel the need. Like all wounds, complete healing takes time, but we do not have to suffer continuous damage. Build confidence in yourself, that you are cute and we can love again. Trust in this process, forgive yourself if you are not right, over time you will see that the wound is healing below the surface.
6: Naturopathy for depression: Eat plenty of fresh juices, green vegetables and sprouted grains. Alfalfa and moong dal, if you like it, you can have cheese and butter milk. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruit, or apple juice before going to bed at night.
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